A little over a month ago I
stumbled across a horrible story. One morning a particular columnist woke up to
find that a picture of herself in a Halloween costume had gone viral. She had
dressed up as her fictional hero Lara Croft, who she admired for her intelligence
and bravery. However, instead of admiring her costume, the people who saw this
image simply laughed because the women is overweight—and then sent the image to all of their friends. As she read
through the many comments she found on her viral picture, she found that people
assumed she must be completely addicted to food, too lazy to exercise, etc.
However, this columnist was really
the opposite, as she describes herself in her article “My embarrassing picturewent viral:”
I eat right (most of the time) and I exercise (an inordinate amount), but it does little, thanks to a struggle with polycystic ovarian syndrome and a failing thyroid gland. I’m strong, I’m flexible and my doctor assures me my health is good, but the fact remains: I’m larger than someone my height should be.
As Peter Attia addresses in his TEDtalk, fat is not a causer of health problems. Instead is a symptom
of greater problems like insulin resistance, food packaging & processing, psychological struggles, and hormone imbalances. Attia even suggests that doctors most likely
aren’t even aware of most of the problems that cause weight gain. How are
people supposed to fix problems when they haven’t the foggiest of how to fix
them?
So while people are told to “lost
weight” and find they hardly can, they can be slandered without consequence.
It’s an accepted bigotry. A surprising majority of people believe everyone can
lose weight if they just try hard enough, and they believe that by shaming
those who are overweight, they’ll be motivated to lose weight. Turns out the
opposite is true… when people feel shamed they simply put on more weight (read more on that here). Which
I don’t think is a huge surprise. Additionally, shaming can lead to even more serious
consequences than that, with eating disorders such as Anorexia and Bulimia
rampant.
And yet the rude comments continue.
Just think of a few months ago when the CEO of Abercrombie and Fitch declared all
overweight people “just not cool enough” to wear his brand of clothes. Or of Marie Claire writer Maura Kelly, who
wrote that she was disgusted by overweight people simply walking. Or all of the
rude comments directed at Adele. Dr. Carolyn Ross even reveals that doctors and
nurses aren’t as kind to their overweight patients, that overweight defendants
are more likely to receive a guilty verdict, and that children as young as 4
don’t want to make friends with an overweight child.
Of course, at the same time, you
can hardly blame most people. As Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie says in her TED talk,
people have been subject to receiving a “single story” of fat people. While
Adichie may have fallen into the trap of stereotyping Mexican citizens, most
people fall into the trap of stereotyping overweight people—and the media, of
course, is a prime factor in that. Advertisements tell us that carrots are “good”
and sugar is “bad”—though I don’t think inanimate objects like food really have
such moral gravity. Movies tend to portray only the young, thin, and beautiful—with
overweight characters being pushed to the side as comics or villains. I believe that I might have dismissed overweight people as well, if I had not been lucky enough to have several amazingly positive stories with overweight people.
Granted, it’s not safe to create a
single story in the other direction either. Most movements fighting Weight
Stigma have the catch-phrase “everyone is beautiful”—which I don’t think helps
at all, as it simply redirects the attention to a person’s appearance and encourages a dismissal of general health. And, as
many of my commenters on Facebook pointed out, thin people certainly can’t
avoid judgment either. Thin, beautiful women are often thought of as vain,
stupid, or power-hungry, and maybe by pointing out only the problems overweight
people face I’m letting the problems of thin people carry on. The figures, words, and format in this poster are as one-sided and inhuman as Weight Stigma is-- for they certainly cannot adequately represent humanity.
However, with this poster, I hope to make
people simply stop and think about the words they assign to people based on
their appearance. Do you think of a fat person as “lazy”? Or do you think of a
thin person as “vain”? To me there is very little difference. It’s unfortunate that overweight people have to carry their struggles so publicly, but there is hope. I hope that we all-- myself included-- can lay such labels to rest, and just enjoy each other as human beings, regardless of sex, skin, or size.